Are you tired of wasting precious time & energy on dates that don’t go anywhere with men who simply aren’t what you desire?
Are you completely confused when a seemingly great guy ghosts you or pulls away?
Or are you shaking your head at confusing text messages and at a total loss as to what they mean much less how to respond?
Girlfriend, I feel you! If you are…
-Completely OVER scrolling through profiles on the Internet till your eyes are blurry
-Seriously contemplating running away to join a nunnery
– Or maybe thinking of just getting a job at Starbucks since you’re there all the time meeting guys over coffee…
Then you’re in the right place.
You’re starting to or have lost hope that you’ll ever find the RIGHT GUY, experience that special connection and have him fall head over heels in love with you.
You are SO ready to connect with your soul mate, but something just isn’t quite working…
Maybe you’re going on dozens of happy hour dates with people you met online…
Or you’re making the rounds at mixers and speed dating events, but nothing seems to pan out and if you are totally honest with yourself, it’s exhausting
It’s a mystery because you have all the great qualities your perfect partner would want. After all, you’re a great catch! Your intelligent, passionate, kind, successful, adventurous, funny, creative and more…
Maybe you have no problem attracting men; your dance card is full, but the men that you get involved with all seem to be the same person, just sporting a different hairstyle and pair of pants! I’ve been there and not only dated the same guy over and over, I married him. TWICE!
So, I know EXACTLY what you’re going through. That’s where healing and breaking old patterns comes in. I finally had to figure it out myself if I wanted anything to change. Check out where my head was once upon a time…
Even for mid-January, the morning was unusually cold in Los Angeles, matching my mood. Bent on destruction, I rubbed my chilled hands together, gripped the steering wheel of my white Volvo, and revved the engine, my gaze dead ahead. I shifted gears, and hit the gas pedal. The tires rolled over the photograph of my ex-boyfriend, the latest lover to spurn me. Feeling a rush of excitement, I braked, shifted into reverse, and ran over Colin’s face again. I’d think about whether I might have gone over the edge later.
I had been dating Colin, a super successful, sexy bi-coastal Brit on and off for about nine months. He’d invited me to visit him in NY to attend a swanky New Year’s Eve party. HE was pretty much everything that I had dreamed of in a man.
MOI? Well… I was:
- Unemployed with an almost empty bank account balance.
- Still reeling from a recent break up with ANOTHER guy who locked me out of the house, after kicking me in the leg. Desperately knocking on the thin window pane in the door, it shattered and landed me in the emergency room at midnight with stitches in my hand. (I still have the scar)
- Desperately lonely.
- Putting off getting a new job for weeks in anticipation of the trip.
- Spending far too much of my meager savings on clothing; a silky black form-fitting dress and strappy high heels for the party.
So. Not in a totally awesome place in my life.
Then, a week before the scheduled trip, my phone rang. It was Colin. “Darling, listen,” he said in a voice that made him sound as if he was simply being logical. “I’ve been thinking, and I just don’t think this is the right time for you to come out to NY
I recall mumbling something completely lame like, “Oh… uh…yeah, I totally understand, no problem.” Inside, I was screaming, “YOU ABSOLUTE SHIT! HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME?”
So….after running over Colin’s face six times, I still didn’t feel completely satisfied.
The photo was damaged but Colin’s treacherous smile was still intact. I went inside, placed the photo in the kitchen sink, and lit it on fire.
That felt better. For the moment. Until I found another guy that treated me the same way, or worse.
Back then, I wish I’d known what I do now but learning the hard way, for me solidified the importance of healing my codependent patterns that…
- I learned from growing up in an alcoholic family
- Affected me deeply from being bullied at school
That led me to…
- Years of crying my eyes out.
- Wondering why all the men I chose were so cruel and cold
- Never feeling truly loved for who I am
I finally realized that it wasn’t actually the men. I was the common denominator. It was actually up to me how I chose to be treated and with whom I let into my life. With deep spiritual work, meditation, energy healing, clearing techniques and lots of work on my self-esteem, I was able to finally let go of old patterns and turn a new page of freedom.
I’m Marla Martenson, aka, The Mystical Matchmaker. After almost two decades as a professional matchmaker… I’ve learned a thing or two. I know what men are looking for in a relationship and I know how amazing women like you can self sabotage… It’s common to hold blocks and patterns that keep repeating over and over, that keeps you on a perpetual dating merry-go-round. Combining my matchmaking skills with energy healing and other powerful modalities, I love helping women release the emotional and energetic cords that keep them single!
Here’s what I’ve learned
- Once you move out and clear past wounds
- An energetic shift happens
- And you learn to totally and unconditionally love and accept yourself
- You’ll get excited about dating again
- And magical things will happen for you. I mean amazingly magical!
I’m passionate about helping women clear, heal, make their gifts shine and get noticed!
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine the feeling of connecting with your soul mate, that perfect person for you.
- Maybe you’re decorating your new home together,
- Taking a dream vacation
- Picking out a rescue pet to add to the family
- Spending evenings in cooking organic food and watching Netflix
- Sharing your hopes and dreams over a glass of wine.
You finally found that person who will always be there for you and have your back.
Finding your soulmate shouldn’t have to be so hard!
Dating really isn’t about the superficial, playing games or learning complicated strategies. It’s about having the right vibration, (which is activated when you deeply love yourself, so that you literally become a magnificent magnet attracting what you want) and a plan.
My 8 Week Program/What You Get
During The Mystical Matchmaker 8 Week One on One Coaching Program…
★ Spend 8 private one hour sessions with me by Skype or Zoom
★ Get crystal clear on who and what you want in your life and how that looks & feels.
★ Clear the blocks that keep you from getting into an amazing relationship.
★ Dive deep into your spiritual practice with powerful modalities & experience a personal transformation.
★ Get messages from the angels for personal guidance to transform your love life.
★ Receive 2 thirty minute energy healing sessions to clear and balance your chakras.
★ Get a refresh & revamp of your online profile and a photo assessment.
★ Receive a “soulmate” care package from me right to your doorstep filled with magical goodies!
What results can you expect?
~ Finally attract the perfect man for you.
~ Self-love and self-esteem through the roof.
~ Get clear on your non- negotiables.
~ Energy and chakras cleared and balanced.
~ Feel amazing being you.
NOW YOU HAVE CHOICE…
If you don’t take action now, what will your life be like 6 months or a year from now?
Will you still be the third wheel on dates with your BFF, or debating whether to take that trip alone to Venice? Gondola rides are always better for two…
So, hop on a call with me and let’s see how we can get you to attract the man you really deserve!