So who do affluent men want to be matched up with? What if a woman wants the flowers from the old days and the respect from the new days? Should you have sex on the first date? Is there just one soulmate? I put ‘the moose on the table’ with Dr. Marissa, and the truth about shallow men and shallow men are verified. Age, kids, gold-diggers, height and lawyers are deal-breakers for list makers, and I give Dr. Marissa a dose of disappointing reality about men with money. Determined to make pleasure a G-rated topic, Dr. Marissa and I do agree on meaningless sex, and that having the best relationship with yourself is the foundation of finding a great relationship with a partner.